Episode 14

14. Bitterness, letting go & Taylor Swift

Every Human Design type has a "not self" alerting system and for Projectors it's bitterness. I share a real life example of how bitterness can be a Projector's ally and its true purpose of alerting us to where we are out of balance and not in the correct environment. I talk about letting go of the old paradigm and narrative, i.e. who we thought we were. Also, Taylor Swift.

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00:00 Intro

00:31 Bitterness and Human Design

02:24 Letting go

02:46 Taylor Swift

03:33 Recognising bitterness

04:30 Old narrative of "success"

05:00 My bitterness experience example

07:40 What bitterness is alerting us to

08:41 Daniel Kahneman / Thinking fast and slow (book) on success

10:16 Don't need to force anything to be recognised

11:26 Identifying and letting go of the incorrect environment

12:00 Recognising the bitterness in my experience example

12:24 Taylor Swift and recognition

13:19 The difference between feeling myself and not-self

14:19 Letting go of the old narrative

17:25 The grief of letting go

18:14 Bosco & *James Nesbitt

19:37 Being safe to be yourself

20:58 The stragglers and not knowing what is next

22:02 Appreciating the bitterness

22:58 Leaking energy as Projectors


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Ise Murphy

My goal is to empower authenticity through safety. With over seventeen years in the events industry keeping people safe, my work is to improve crowd safety and support people to feel safe to be authentically themselves.